Finny’s (Not so) Brief 1/6/17–A book deal, a TV deal and a big deal.

These posts take a lot of time, much longer than I thought they would. I’ve quickly learned that if I start writing earlier in the day, it makes the writing better and I have more time to focus on each topic. I feel like it really shows in today’s topics. It goes some places. It is also my longest post since I started doing this.. so buckle up!

Take away a man’s voice and you make his words matter even more

Mark Twain made a living off of controversy. The more his novel were disputed, the more they sold. His books ended up being American classics. The controversy kept those books in the national eye, even to this day. The more the books are disputed and banned, the more people want to read them. Now, before I get into this first story I need to make perfectly clear that I am not equating Mark Twain and this person that I am about to talk about.

You’ve probably heard of Milo Yiannopoulos.

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Milo is currently employed by Breitbart.com and made his fame by being a notorious internet troll. In fact, he is one of only a couple people who have been banned from Twitter due to his actions after the Leslie Jones incident. Although Milo’s direct connection to the attacks against Jones can be disputed due to the sheer number of tweet that Jones received in a short amount of time, it is hard to argue that Milo used Twitter to personally attack others or to put it simply, cyberbully. Many claim that he instigated his Twitter followers to attack Jones, which may have prompted the ban.

Many have dubbed Milo the poster-boy of the alt-right movement. He has taken firm stances against immigration, feminism, political correctness and pretty much anything that challenges tradition western thought. Needless to say, there are many out there who don’t really like this guy.

Well… Milo got himself a book deal.

Simon and Schuster signed Milo to a $250,000 book deal that, as you would guess, riled a few feathers. Many, including Leslie Jones, took to Twitter and other mediums to rip Simon and Schuster for signing the controversial figure to a book deal. Simon and Schuster defended their deal in a statement:

“At Simon & Schuster we have always published books by a wide range of authors with greatly varying, and frequently controversial opinions, and appealing to many different audiences of readers. While we are cognizant that many may disagree vehemently with the books we publish we note that the opinions expressed therein belong to our authors, and do not reflect either a corporate viewpoint or the views of our employees.”

Leslie Jones responded with this tweet:

Here’s the thing about all of this: it just brings more attention to the book and inevitably will sell more books because of it. It’s the Mark Twain effect (again, not equating the two.) You may disagree with the author (and possibly for good reason) but it fails to do anything about the problem. In fact, you make his words matter that much more, especially for a troll such as Milo. The more negative attention he gets, especially from Hollywood and media outlets, the more notoriety he gets from his following. In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t put some of those negative quote in his book in some way. That’s the way the guy works… and it’s a pretty good business model if we are being honest. If you are Simon and Schuster, how do you not cash in on that?

Also, do not pretend like ‘the left’ are the only people who are boycotting stuff like this. Remember the very vocal group of people on social media who wanted to boycott Rogue One because of it’s ‘anti-Trump, pro-feminist’ agenda? The problem goes both ways.

Drawing some lines…

Writing about this made me think of another topic, a topic that needs to be addressed in 2017 if Twitter wants to survive long-term. Twitter needs to establish a good set of rules to combat cyberbullying, death threats and terrorism. I personally see, on a daily basis, numerous tweets that call for the death of certain people. Terrorists have also used the medium to help spread their hate. Cyberbullying… well… I don’t think I need to tell you how widespread that is.

Twitter is a very powerful tool. I use Twitter every day to help stay on top of breaking news, see what the PEOTUS is tweeting next and what various talking heads are arguing about. It’s great for stuff like that. However, I know that people use Twitter differently. Unfortunately, it is not all good. Jack Dorsey and his team at Twitter need to address the concerns of those who face abuse on a daily basis. Draw some lines as to what you can and cannot say on Twitter. Remember, Twitter is its own company, it can ban users for whatever reason it wants… freedom of speech rules do not really apply. It can remain an open forum but it can restrict whatever it wants to restrict.

Twitter can continue to grow and become an even more powerful tool but the lack of security tools are really holding it back. I really want a reason to delete my Facebook account but I am not quite there yet.

Ok, that ends that little rant.

Kelly on a new journey and Fox News at a crossroads

2017 is a year of new beginnings for a lot of people. It is for me and maybe you, the person reading this. It is also a new beginning for many faces that had quite the 2016. This doesn’t ring true any truer for anyone more than Megyn Kelly.

Megyn Kelly quickly jumped (more) into the mainstream after the first Republican Primary debate where she asked this question:

After this Trump went on the offensive saying that Kelly had “blood coming out of her eyes, blood coming out of her… wherever.” An allusion most said was to her menstrual cycle.

Then came the accusations against Roger Ailes, the former head honcho at Fox News. Ailes was accused by multiple women at Fox News, including Kelly, of sexual harassment.

Then it seemed like Kelly was being attacked by the male commentators at Fox News including Sean Hannity and Bill O’ Reilly. All of this led to one obvious conclusion: Megyn Kelly was probably not going to stay at Fox News much longer.

Well, she isn’t.

Megyn Kelly will now be moving to NBC News where she will host a Sunday night News magazine (much like 60 Minutes), a daytime news show and a key role in breaking news events. This is a big investment in a field that seems to be downsizing and going more web based. NBC is putting a lot on the line for this deal.

The most interesting part of this deal, at least for me, is the Sunday night news magazine. If this leads into Sunday Night Football, Kelly has a huge opportunity here. Sunday Night Football (which is only on 5 months of the year) is a ratings superstar during football season. NBC would be wise to cash in on that with its new news program leading into it.

Kelly has turned a lot of negatives and head-butting in 2016 in a new opportunity in 2017. It will be interesting to see how she handles all of this when she takes over at NBC this summer when her Fox News contract is up. Here is her signing off her last “Kelly File” on Tuesday Night:

She handled the situation with a lot of class and I have a newfound respect for her as a journalist. Consider me a fan of Megyn Kelly.

So where does Fox News go from here? Well, it named Tucker Carlson, who took over for Greta van Susteren when she left last year (and is now at MSNBC of all places.) Does Fox News officially become the megaphone for Donald Trump in 2017? It was leaning that way during the general election season. Sean Hannity had Trump on on almost a nightly basis (for what he called ‘exclusive’ interviews) and Trump also got preferential treatment on the network. Fox News is truly at a crossroads as a network. What kind of network does it want to be? I’m not saying become more “fair and balanced” because well… you know that won’t happen. I’m talking about challenging the soon-to-be-President and not getting on their knees over everything he does or doesn’t do. It’ll be one of the big media stories to watch in 2017.

Quick tidbit: Donald Trump will hold his first press conference in almost 170 days next Wednesday. Hillary Clinton, depending on what source you read, went roughly 244 days without a presser.

That ends today’s brief (a name of which I am still looking for.) I had a lot more that I wanted to talk about… including my review of the Apple Watch but this post went on longer than I thought it would.. which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. I’ll have that review up some time this weekend as a little bonus post. Until then, enjoy the weekend, folks! Keep in touch with me on Twitter @ryanfinfrock. Tell me what you like and don’t like about these posts. What do you want to see? let me know!

Also, I have a new game review up on Brashgames.com. I reviewed Nitroplus Blasterz: Heroines Infinite Duel which is just as anime as the title suggests. Give it a read! I’m not a fan of anime… mainly because I think it’s bizarre. So I was the perfect guy to review this game!

Finny’s *Ok, it hasn’t been daily* brief 1/2/17– Can we really hit the reset button?

Welcome to 2017! The year where everyone will start fresh after the dumpster fire that was known as 2016. Nothing that happened in the past will affect you in 2017… because that’s how this works. 2017 is the year we all hit the reset button and pretend like nothing bad happened or will ever happen again.

Except Donald Trump (depending on your viewpoint), celebrity deaths, the ever-declining trust in the media, fake news, social media BS… and whatever else you may have hated in 2016.

Could we really just hit a reset button when the clock struck midnight on January 1st? I get that people use it as a way to clean their slate of all the crap that may have happened over the year and, in a way, start fresh but bad things are still going to happen. In fact, hitting reset is probably the last thing we should do after a year like 2016. As we should every year, we should learn and grow from what happened in the past year and use it to make us better people. That’s how real change happens in this country. You cannot pretend as if Trump never won the election; you need to take the opportunity to listen to the other side of the issues and find common ground. Our country is as divided as ever, it is important to hold 2016 sacred. Also, celebrities are still going to die it is just a fact of life.

Trust in media is at an all-time low and 2017 will be a very important year for journalists. In a time where fact-checking seems to have taken a back seat, how will journalism rise to the task? I’m not going to pretend like I have the answers. I don’t. However, in the ‘post-truth’ world we live in, how do we get the truth out in an effective way? That’s one thing I will definitely keep an eye on in 2017. 2016 was definitely a real crappy year for facts… I think everyone can agree on that. I will be keep a close eye on it here on CFDD.

Also, hopefully that absolute crap that I see on Facebook on a daily basis will cease to exist in 2017… a guy can dream.. right?

Yes, it will forever be known as a crappy year. Let’s turn the crap into something that doesn’t stink as much.

That’s my little diatribe on the year ahead: staying positive. We all need to stay positive. I know I do.

2016 was a very weird year for me. Stress was at an all-time high, health was at an all-time low at times and it seemed like nothing rolled my way and I think it had a great impact on those around me as well. Toward the end of the year, I started changing my mentality about a lot of things and it has had a profound impact on how I live my life. Writing has also helped me out drastically. 2017 is the year I build on those gains and become a better individual.

Cheap Five Dollar Dress will continue with posts throughout each week. Yeah, I know it started as a “hey, I’m going to do a new post every day” kind of thing. I really thought that I had the time and mental toughness to get that done. Turns out it takes more time to churns these out than I thought. Between research, reading and writing, each post ends up taking a good 2-3 hours to get published. That’s a lot of time for someone with a schedule like mine. So the plan is to have 3 posts per week (hopefully on a Monday, Wednesday, Friday schedule.)

I love writing in the style that I do here on my blog because… well… I can write the way I want. Remember the days of MLA and formatting and paragraph structure? That stuff was BS when you learned it in school because you hardly (if ever) use it in real life. Yes, there are guidelines when you write for certain things to make sure you stuff doesn’t suck… but when was the last time you used MLA for anything?? I hope to continue writing on here for a very long time. I don’t really care about how many people come and read every day. This is really just something for me to have fun with and do what I want to do.

Looking ahead to this week, I’ll start my normal thing on Wednesday and on Friday I may write about my experience with my new Apple Watch. We’ll see how that turns out. If I don’t like how that is looking, I’ll definitely have something else lined up.

Here’s to a 2017 that we will not soon forget. I hope you set off to attain your personal goals for the year. I know I will. Make 2017 YOUR year where you make it happen.

Finny’s *Not so Daily* Brief 12/20/16— Hey, white guys! Happy Holidays!

I’m back! Again! Things have gotten a little interesting over the last couple days that forced me to take a couple days off of the blog. I’m back writing in games media! I’m a writer for Brashgames.com. I’ll be reviewing video games, writing news stories and eventually starting a podcast. You can read my review of Super Mario Run there now. Give it a read and tell me what you think. I start writing again and all of a sudden the writing just grows ten fold. It’s awesome but also extremely time consuming.

Anyway… back to the matter at hand. Boy do I have a doozy of a story to start off with.

MTV just told us why Trump won the election

MTV really put into 2016 into perspective today. When I say ‘perspective,’ I really mean “Boy, they really blame one group of people for the shit storm that was 2016.”

Before I go on.. it is important you know what I’m talking about:

MTV decided to take it upon themselves to blame white guys for 2016 and all of its atrocities. Yep… where do I even begin on this?

I know this is hard territory for a white guy such as myself to talk about because I’m ‘one of them’ but hear me out here: THIS CRAP IS WHY DONALD TRUMP GOT ELECTED AND WHY YOU PROBABLY MADE THIS VIDEO IN THE FIRST PLACE! Think back to the campaign season. There were people out there who lumped Trump voters into what someone referred to as a “basket of deplorables.” Yes, she (Hillary Clinton) said that it was only half of Trump supporters but people were quick to jump on it and wear the badge with honor. People continued to call most Trump supporters racists, misogynist, Nazis etc. I think it goes without saying that a lot of Trump supporters do not fit that bill. There are Trump supporters who think that he will bring jumps back to rural areas and stimulate the economy. Also, let me say that yes… there are a lot of real shitty Trump supporters out there too. The name calling fueled people to get out the vote and Trump won. Negative labels on groups of people never work and do more harm than good.

Making a video like this automatically alienates an entire group of people… a group of people that you would want to talk to in order to have a productive conversation about where our country is and where we can improve it. Yes, this video may want to think it is doing this but it is doing the opposite. Ad hominem attacks by essentially saying “you don’t know what I’m going through because you’re a white guy” is not a good start to a conversation.

All white guys are responsible for Brock Turner? What?

It also doesn’t seem to care about its own message by cracking a joke about Kanye West not being black. Beyonce can talk about black issues but Kanye can’t? In what world does that make sense? “You know what you did, Kanye.” What, meet with President-elect Trump? Is that grounds for losing your ‘black card?’

I also audibly laughed when the “some of you are fine” line was thrown in there at the end…as if it actually meant anything at that point.

I was equal parts infuriated and hysterical while I watched this. Constructive conversations need to happen in our country to bring us closer together in these divided times. Also, people replying to this tweet with death threats and racist language… no words can describe how hypocritical you are being. I know, the internet will forever be… well, the internet.

Happy Holidays vs Merry Christmas– A battle not worth fighting

Ok… I say Happy Holidays a lot. Why? I know people who do not celebrate Christmas. It is that simple. Some people have a hard time wrapping their head around that.

I have family members who are ‘Merry Christmas’ folk all the way. When I say Happy Holidays to them (mostly just to trigger a response) it’s immediately met with “IT’S MERRY CHRISTMAS!” Is it though? Hanukkah actually starts on Christmas Eve this year… so what would you say to your Jewish family and friends? “Hey, screw you guys! It’s Christmas! Just bad luck for you guys to have your thing start on the eve of ours.”

Maybe I’m too PC (trust me, I’m really not) buy Happy Holidays shouldn’t trigger the people the way it does. You have Trump telling large groups of people that we are going to say “Merry Christmas again.” Again? When did it ever leave? You can celebrate Christmas and say Merry Christmas to whomever you want but when someone says “I actually celebrate Hanukkah” what would your response be?

That’s all I really wanted to say on that topic… just something that was really irking me recently. It baffles me how many people get worked up over this.

That ends the brief for today. I’ll hopefully be back tomorrow with more stuff that I’m fired up about in the world. In the mean time, let me know what you think of today’s stories? What do you think of MTV’s actions? You a Happy Holidays or Merry Christmas kind of person? Let me know!

I’ll end this with a (Christmas themed) YouTube video released last night that had me laughing pretty hard. There’s a pretty great “Hamilton” parody in there.

 

Finny’s Daily Brief 12/14/16– If I had $4.8 million…

Yes, I did use the picture of Kate Upton to get your attention.

Yes, Kate Upton is a part of today’s brief… in a way. It’s about as much clickbait as I will ever do, so don’t worry.

I know you might also be thinking, “Well, this guy said he was going to do daily posts and already skipped one day. What a doofus.” To that I say:

Doofus… really?

Also, I donated blood platelets yesterday where I thought I could do some research and writing on my iPad. That was a huge mistake. I’ve donated blood many times but seemed to forget that when you donate blood, one arm is essentially gone for the time you are donating. That makes typing (which isn’t easy on an iPad in the first place) next to impossible. I also had to work later in the day where I was already a little out of it from the donation… so writing would have been pretty disastrous yesterday.

Anyway… on with the show.

“How to” Google things in 2016

Google released the things that Americans seemed to need the most help with in 2016 today. In a year with so much anger, frustration, sadness and confusion, I was curious to see how many Americans needed information on “How to cope” or “How to accept the results of the 2016 Presidential Election.” Actually, it turns out another phenomena took over our “how to” searches:

How to play Pokemon GO.

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Yes, the mobile game hit that took over the summer also dominated Google searches. This is no surprise considering the millions of people who downloaded and played the app and the countless hours of media coverage it got as a result.

The best “how to” search of the year, and #5 on the list, is “How to move to Canada.” This is obviously as a result of the results of the Presidential Election. This is funny on a few fronts.

  1. The Canadian immigration website crashed the night of the election when it started looking like Donald Trump was going to win.
  2. If people looked at the tax rate and other aspects of living in Canada, they wouldn’t want to live in Canada.

It’s easy to say education is important in situations like this but with the amount of stupid that has happened in 2016… I’ll give this one a pass.

Also, I can’t honestly remember the last time (if ever) I Googled “how to” anything. What about you? I’m curious to know.

When you steal $4.8 million… use it wisely.

Ok… here’s where Kate Upton (kinda) comes in.

Ars Technica recently reported on a 48-year-old California man who stole $4.8 million from his company. That is hardly anything new but it is what he did with some of the money that is catching people’s attention today.

Kevin Lee Co spent money on plastic surgery, luxury box season tickets for the San Francisco 49ers (arguable the biggest waste of money) and the Sacramento Kings. Those are normal purchases though when you steal a few million dollars. There was one more thing he spent money on…

Lee Co spent $1 million of that money on the mobile game “Game of War.” That’s the game you probably know as the one with Kate Upton in the commercials. Yeah… a million dollars on a mobile game.

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Here’s how money works in a mobile game like “Game of War.” You are hit with microtransactions left and right when you play games like this. In “Game of War,” you can spend money on building you castle faster, more soldiers or more money. The thing about it is that these things can be lost or destroyed by other players and that money you spent on it is wasted. This has led people to spend an average of $500 on the game while the game racks in $1 million a day.

We all have that family member (or maybe it’s even you) who has sunk many hours into Candy Crush… don’t lie to yourself.

This isn’t really anything new for the mobile gaming market but does set a weird precedent for the future of gaming. If people are willing to spend this kind of money on a  game that is free to download but then spend hundreds of dollars on things in-game, there are going to be many people who want in on the action. Although this has been happening for quite some time, I’ll be curious to see what happens in the future.

Speaking of mobile games… Super Mario Run comes out tomorrow on iOS. My body is ready to get my hands on that.

Oh yeah, Lee Co faces 20 years in prison when he is sentenced in May for his embezzlement.

Anyway, that’s where I’ll wrap things up today. I’m going to end things with a couple links from things happening in Aleppo right now. In terms of things that are most important right now, this may be damn near the top. Education yourself on this and realize what is actually happening over there right now. I don’t think it’s appropriate to give my personal take on this, so just read.

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Medium Live Blog

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Twitter Moments

Anyway, let me know your thoughts on today’s brief: what you liked, what you didn’t like and what you want to see. I’ll be back tomorrow writing another edition of Finny’s Daily Brief (working title.)

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Finny’s Daily Brief 12/12/16– What’d I Miss?

Ok… let me start off by saying that I apologize if there are one two many “Hamilton” references in today’s brief.

Actually, scratch that. You’re welcome.

I was out running this morning and was thinking of a way to give a  little “extra something” to my first brief and my first time talking about current events in this format in some time. “Hamilton” has kind of dominated my free time for the past few months (and excellent running music if you want to give it a try) so it only seems right to give the first brief a little “Hamilton” flavor.

It’s been a long time. So What’d I miss?

What? You’ve never listened to Hamilton before? Are you human?

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It must be nice… it must be nice… to have Vladimir on your side.

Putin must really like all of the coverage he is getting here in the United States. Thanks to Donald Trump, the U.S. relationship with Russia has taken center stage.

You know… kinda like Lafayette and Hamilton but with less of the actual friendship, more of the backstabbing, less of the French… I’m trying to make it work.

Most recently, in what may be the best act of bipartisanship we may see in the next four years, members of the House and Senate have come out and said that there needs to be a thorough investigation into Russian hacking of the election. Many believe that the hacking had a profound impact on the election (which is extremely hard to prove… even if there was proof of hacking.) After the hack of DNC emails, many thought that hacking of the election results is just as likely… because of reasons that people are not very clear on.

I won’t sit here and pretend that I know all of the stuff that is involved with investigating what goes into a possible hack of ballot boxes or ballot machines but I will say that it is worth an investigation but if people are wanting this to have a profound impact on the election.. even to the point where the Clinton camp is saying that the Electoral College should be briefed on this before voting next week… is about as crazy as crazy gets.

That’s not where the Russia stuff ends though.

Trump’s leading candidate for Secretary of State is raising Russian red flags all over the place.

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Rex Tillerson is the current CEO of Exxon-Mobil (which pisses people off to begin with) but also has a good relationship with Russia. He even received a friendship award from Russia. I’m serious. That’s about as close to a participation trophy as you can get in politics.

“Hey Tillerson, you’re a good guy!”

“Hey, Putin! Thanks, Man! I appreciate it.”

“Here’s this friendship award just to say ‘thank you for being a friend.'”

That’s the extent of Tillerson’s foreign policy experience. It’s more than Trump’s, to his credit (whatever that may be worth.) The race for State seems to be between Tillerson and Mitt Romney, who lambasted Trump earlier this year during the Primary. During his dinner interview with Trump it spawned the best photo of the year.

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What was on the menu that night? Romney’s dignity.

“Dignity is a dish best served cold.” Ok.. Two captions of that photo are enough but I’ll be damned if this isn’t a good representation of Aaron Burr and Hamilton.

Finally, turning back to Russia, it makes sense why so many people are worried about our relationship with Russia. I won’t bore you with all of the details, but Russia has a really sketchy record on a lot of things (invading countries, LGBT rights, media restrictions, killing journalists, etc.) People have a right to be worried about our Russian dealings.

Dear James Comey, what to say to you…

The election 0f 2016 was wrapped up a little over a month ago. Donald Trump won fair and square. I was surprised that I was surprised at the amount of finger pointing that was going on around the Democratic Party in the days (and now month) following the election.

Harry Reid said today that James Comey, head of the FBI, cost Hillary Clinton the election. Reid is not the first person to say this but is (or was) the highest ranking person in Congress to publicly call out Comey.

Don’t remember what happened?  James Comey reopened the case against Hillary Clinton and her private use of an email server when new emails were discovered when investigators were looking at Anthony Weiner’s case (Would it be inappropriate to say “Rise up?” in keeping with the ‘Hamilton’ theme?) The thing that made this a bigger deal than normal was that it was reopened just a few days before people were heading to the polls on Election Day.

Harry Reid is retiring so he really has nothing to lose by coming out and calling out James Comey for this. Does he have a point? Is there a correlation between Comey and the Election results? It’s hard to say. However, the gap between Trump and Clinton was tightening before this news came out so it is hard to pinpoint where it went wrong. Also, when you hardly campaign in Michigan and Wisconsin because you feel like you have it in the bag… don’t be surprised when you lose those states.

I could go on and on about the election because I never had a chance to talk about it in depth… but that ship has sail. I just find it very humorous when the losing side plays the blame game so quickly and denies the facts of what happened.

Hillary should have gone door to door, seem more approachable, seem like people could grab a beer with her. (These Hamilton references are really stretching it, aren’t they?

Hopefully for one last time: deflategate

Yeah.. yeah… I stretched the reference there a little bit there too. That’s about as far as I can take the ‘Hamilton’ reference.

Fox Sports reported yesterday that the New York Giants are going to the NFL with reports that the Pittsburgh Steelers improperly deflated footballs to gain an advantage.

Yep… here we go again.

Let me preface by saying as a Bengals fan, I loved seeing the Steelers involved in a controversy. As a football fan, let me say that ‘deflategate’ needs to die and the NFL needs to focus all of their attention on things that matter. That’s why I bring this up… mainly as a springboard to talk a little bit about what in the hell is wrong with the NFL right now.

  • A guy gets a longer suspension for using marijuana than another guy does for beating his girlfriend.
  • Many retired football players cannot remember family members

These are the two biggest issues the NFL has right now. When the first ‘deflategate’ controversy came to be, it was all anyone could talk about. I would even go as far as to believe that it was all part of Roger Goodell’s plan: turn the focus away from actual issues and turn it to this thing that will probably yield zero results. We weren’t talking about concussions and we weren’t talking about domestic abuse issues in the NFL (at least not to the magnitude of ‘deflategate.’)

This was the point where I started feeling guilty watching NFL games on Sunday. Now, in the back of my head I will always be thinking about the background issues facing the NFL (albeit the concussion issue hits me harder than most.) The NFL has a lot of problems to figure out and another ‘deflategate’ controversy will do nothing but make the other problems worse.

I can only wish the NFL could teach them how to say goodbye to ‘deflategate.’ (Ok, that’s the last one.)

That ends the brief for today. It’s a definite work in progress. I’m still figuring out a few kinks and getting a definite format down and trying to be, well, brief.

I’ll be back tomorrow, with less Hamilton references (no promises) and more stories and hopefully a better idea of what to do with this idea.

Headaches be damned… it’s time to start writing again.

Yeah… my last post was in May. I get it. Most of my posts any more are just updates on my livelihood and how I’m going to revive the blog at that particular time, I get it. However, I feel as if this time is different because I really am starting to, how should I say it, feel like a new person.

“Why?” You might ask. Good question. Let’s dive into it… shall we?

My last post… which feels like a lifetime ago… focused on my health and the uphill climb that I was facing. I also laid out plans that I more than failed on (big surprise there.) I just reread that post from May of this year and realized how different my life was then compared to now. It’s funny how a really bad health issue allows you to really reminisce on your life. In May, I was diagnosed with a borderline Chiari malformation with the possibility of brain surgery looming over my head. I wasn’t getting any sleep, personal relationships weren’t working out, I weighed a crap ton… the list goes on and on. Life choices and health problems plagued my being and I think everyone around me noticed it but didn’t want to say anything. That’s in the past.

December 2016. Today. Boy have things changed. Let me preface this by saying I am nowhere near 100% and continue the fight every day to become a better person. After 23 years of living, making lifestyle changes is extremely difficult.

Headaches are come and go. Nowhere near as bad as they were in the past. That is thanks to a great neurologist and me taking matters into my own hands. How? Exercise and diet. In May, when I first went to the neurologist, I weighed 234 pounds. That’s pretty hefty for a guy who is only 5’6”. I was a total couch potato who ate a lot of fast food and Chinese takeout. As of writing this, I try and get out and run a couple miles each day and have cut out junk food almost entirely (a little Chinese takeout here and there… because let’s be serious, that stuff is freaking delicious.) The result so far: I weigh 199 pounds. I have to go back to high school to find the last time I was under 200 pounds. That has had an impact on a lot of aspects of my life. I have more energy throughout the day, I can stay focused longer and, most importantly, I am able to manage my headaches and migraines more effectively.

What I’m doing is not groundbreaking in the weight loss department. If you are reading this and are thinking about taking the steps of losing weight, just go out and walk a couple miles each day. Try and reach 10,000 steps each day. You’d be surprised how much that does for you. If you want to know more about what I did, don’t be afraid to reach out to me. This has been so life changing for me that I want to help whoever I can even though I am nowhere near an expert on the topic.

Another thing that I’ve started to do on a daily basis is meditation. I won’t get into details on that other than it has also helped out a ton in my life. I use the app Headspace. Give it a try. You can do 10 days free and then subscribe. I do have a month subscription I can give away to whomever is first to want it. The app is wonderful and it only takes 10-20 minutes out of morning routine every day. Reach out and whoever is first to talk to me will get the free month. Try the ten days first to see if it’s something you’d like.

In terms of writing (and the reason for the post,) I have been doing many, many drafts of posts that  I thought would be good for CFDD which obviously never saw the light of day. They were really bad. I won’t let you read them. Most of them were focused on the election. As I would continue writing, I started to realize that I am not really being original, or bring my own flavor, to the topic. I was essentially rehashing something that someone more qualified and established was already saying. I decided the best way moving forward is to just embrace it and let it evolve however it may evolve. Posts are always in the works and most will never be published. 

I always write about the day’s happenings in a notebook I keep by my bedside… which gave me an idea: put all that stuff in the blog. This will become my new “Frock Talk” from my college radio days but just in the written form. Yes, many people already do this and some do this on YouTube or other video platforms but I want to give my own spin on it and in the written form (which is kind of hard to come by these days.) I I want to talk about whatever stories I find interesting, give my take on them and talk about why that story may or may not matter in whatever context that may be.  That’s the plan starting December 12, 2016. The title of the series (?) hasn’t been figured out yet. It may turn into a video thing in conjunction with the written post if I can find an efficient way to do it. 

I will also be doing longer form stuff as well. I have my schedule figured out (for now) and figure I can do the writing thing effectively on a daily basis. Whatever else comes of it is anyone’s guess at this point. 

As always, I stay fairly active on Twitter @ryanfinfrock. That’s also where I will be pulling my stories from the day from and writing down the ones I think are the best. I am excited for the future and being able to finally be able to write more effectively. It’s all fun for me and whoever reads it is just an added bonus. Send me tweets on story ideas or whatever. I can’t wait to get things going.

I’ll also be working on the formatting of the site more… it’s still kind of a mess.

Oh yeah… this blog thing is still happening

My last post was in October of 2014. That is quite a long time between posts. So the obvious question becomes: What the hell happened? I will answer that question… but let me start by saying some other things. All I ask is that you excuse typos and such. You’ll understand why in a bit.

Cheap Five Dollar Dress has been something that I think about almost on a daily basis. How can I make it better? Would X topic be good to write about? Should I finally fix the layout and CSS problems with the site? Should I care that not many people actually read this thing?

I’ve had a blog for almost 8 years dating back to an old blog that I had on Blogger (I’ve searched high and low… I can’t seem to find where that thing is now.) Blogging was always something that I used as a form of release therapy to allow me to vent about center issues that bugged me. It functioned well in that regard. As my writing evolved, I started writing about more topics. My trips to the Apple Store are by far my most popular posts that I have written. I found that simply talking about a life experience with added personality is what many people enjoy reading. That’s when I started to find my style of writing. It turned out to be a blend of humor, sarcasm and seriousness when the situation warranted. I had professors who ended up reading what I wrote and were curious about my thoughts on certain issues. I had my (in)famous college radio talk show Frock Talk where I expounded on topics that I covered here on the blog. That’s where I really started to find my political voice.

Politics is a weird thing with me. I love politics but I also hate that I love politics. However, through my college (and even in my high school) career, I found that not many people my age really cared about politics because everyone felt that nothing really mattered to them. I wanted to try and be a voice for people my age and try and tell them that these things do matter and have repercussions down the road. That became the focus of Frock Talk for much of its run. When the show started, the Occupy Wall Street thing was going on. If you’ve read, heard or know me, you know how I feel about that little part of history. I won’t go into it again…because that dead horse has been beaten enough.

Frock Talk had a decent run of a couple years. I eventually had to end it because of work and school commitments. I still kept in touch with those at the radio station and always thought of getting back on the airwaves (especially now during this 2016 election because…that’s a thing.) Once Frock Talk ended, Cheap Five Dollar Dress kind of faded into the background. I would post something every once and a while but the my inner passion really wasn’t there like it was when I did Frock Talk. So it continued to fade.

That brings us to today.

Since October of 2014, I’ve graduated from college (I heard it is a big achievement of some kind) with a degree in Electronic Media and Broadcasting and Political Science. That is probably the biggest positive to have happened. I also took a pretty awesome trip to Washington D.C.

Then there’s the downside.

It took me well over 4 days to finally finish this blog post. Not because of laziness, not because of work and not because of social commitments. To really understand what has happened, you need to know that I’ve had concussions… and quite a few of them.

The first one happened in the 6th grade when I was playing basketball. I was running down the court, lost my balance and slid headfirst into a wall. I was extremely lucky that day. I could have easily of been paralyzed and unable to type these words that you read right now. A 6th grader shouldn’t have to have a big life lesson like that at that age. That was the first of many concussions that carried through high school. I had to give up high school sports as a sophomore out of my own safety. New information about the long term effects of concussions really got to me and I felt that it was time to really start to look at my college and professional future. So I gave up football and lacrosse (although I still coached grade school lacrosse throughout my high school days) and turned to more broadcasting-centered activities.

So, back to today.

A couple months ago, I started getting consistently bad headaches. Headaches that won’t go away. Headaches that have a sort of baseline pain and spike in severity at random times. This has made it hard to focus on some of the things that I care about. A couple of those things are reading and writing. Two big necessities when blogging and two big necessities in my life. They also caused problems in my personal life. I became very irritable. I didn’t want to talk to anyone or see anyone. My mood began change quite frequently. I started to believe that it was me against the world. It affected me and I really believe that it affected those close to me and those that I care deeply about (whether they know about it or not.) The doctors said that the cause of these consistent headaches could be the concussions that I’ve had (and probably the most likely cause) but they cannot say with absolute certainty. All they can help with is managing the symptoms that I’ve had. I consider myself fortunate because there was a point where the doctor said that brain surgery was a possibility. I have no problem admitting that that scared the living crap out of me. I lost what little sleep I was already getting to the though of having brain surgery.

So obviously, it takes a long time for me to gather my thoughts and type words to screen. I am forced to take numerous breaks, look at nothing and just zone out to get back into the zone. I know, it’s weird to say, but that’s what happens and now you know what the hell happened to me and Cheap Five Dollar Dress.

So, enough of all of that “Debby-Downer” crap. Time to focus on what’s ahead (both in life and Cheap Five Dollar Dress.)

I’m going to try my hardest and try to post a new story at least once a week. Of course, there are a number of variables at play there, but that’s the goal. I still don’t care about how many people will end up reading it or what kind of impact it will have. It it has a positive impact and there are a lot of eyes that read it… great! But if the negative happens, I could not care less. This is fun for me.

I’m currently researching and drafting a post about the Facebook debacle about blacklisting conservative news sites from its “Trending News” feature. I won’t spoil the post but here are a couple thoughts: Facebook is free to do what it wants and the government shouldn’t step in and make them change their ways. If people are unhappy with what Facebook did (if it actually happened) then get off the site and find another social media site to go to. Let the market decide if Facebook is in the right or wrong not the government.

That’s just part of what I plan on writing about in the near future on the topic.

Also, as I alluded to earlier, the 2016 Election is a thing and I have some thoughts on it! A lot of thoughts. If you follow me on Twitter @ryanfinfrock you know what a lot of those feelings are.

I’ve also been doing as much research as I can on my own on the true impact of the media on politics. Is it as big of deal as people say it is? Is the media to blame for Donald Trump? Is the media giving all candidates a fair shot? These are the type of things that I’ve been looking into and trying to find answers to. Some of the stuff has been fascinating. Look forward to some of that stuff in the future.

I want to do a podcast. In what capacity, I don’t know yet… but I consistently think of ways to make it work. I did a podcast for a website called APGNation for a little while. We talked about video games and such. It was a lot of fun. You can listen to the last episode I did right here.

The CSS and layout of the site is kind of jacked up right now. I changed the format a while back and really haven’t taken the time to fix it. I plan on doing that over the course of the next few months.

Okay… I think it’s time to wrap this baby up, I’m nearly at 1,500 words. This post was hard for me to write for many, many reasons and is not the normal writing that I normally do on here. However, it is something that I felt that I needed to write about and to just get writing again. This is a new beginning. I can’t wait to see what’s in store.

Look Here! More Apple Stuff!!!

Well, here we go again! Another Apple event and another blog post of me talking about the Apple event. I find that talking about Apple products is real easy to do and can lead to some interesting discussions. So let the Apple fanboy-ing begin!

In regard to the new iPads, a much expected feature, Touch-ID, is now on the new iPad Air 2 and iPad Mini 3. This was possibly the biggest given coming into the event today. I recently was able to use Touch-ID with my new iPhone 6 for the first time and it does make a huge difference. I wish my iPad Air 1 had it, it’s really my only gripe about my iPad. Perhaps the feature I am curious to see in action is the removal of the air gap. The air gap is the space between the glass and the actual display. It is meant to help protect the display from damage. With the removal of this air gap, it (in theory) will provide better response times and a much better display while making the iPad thinner. My iPad Air is already extremely thin, so having a thinner iPad is kind of mind-boggling. I’ve already seen numerous tweets questioning how easy it is for the new iPad to bend.

What I found interesting is how Apple treated the unveiling of the new iPad Mini. It has all of the functions of the iPad Air 2 in a smaller size. However, it does make sense since the introduction of the iPhone 6 Plus with is only about 2 inches smaller and has more functions. It’ll be interesting how Apple treats the iPad Mini going forward and how much they plan on using the iPhone to phase it out. Because for some reason, people really like bigger phones… people are nuts.

Also, PLEASE STOP TAKING PICTURES WITH YOUR IPADS!!!! I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!!! YOU ALL LOOK LIKE IDIOTS!

One thing that was missing that some people were expecting was the introduction of an iPad Pro. Basically, this would be a 12-inch iPad. This never made sense to me until I started seeing how Microsoft was able to make it work with its Surface 3 tablet. I could see Apple taking a page out of Microsoft’s playbook and combining the iPad and Macbook Air into one product. It may give Microsoft a victory but I feel Apple would be able to make their iPad Pro much functional and user friendly. I expect Apple to unveil something like that in the future.

This picture doesn't do the display any justice.
This picture doesn’t do the display any justice.

Apple has always been at the forefront of technology when it comes to their Mac products. The Macbook Pro, iMac and Mac Pro has always continued to create new ways for users to experience the desktop. When I bought my first Macbook Pro, a Mid-2012 Retina model, it was unlike anything I have ever used and I was immediately a fan of Apple products going forward. Today, Apple is making it very hard to not buy a new iMac. The new iMac features a 5K display. A fully-functional computer with a 5K display, all starting at $2499. This is an insanely good bargain if you know anything about displays and the costs of other Mac products. Even 4K displays are going for at least 3 grand. This was by-far the best news of the day from Apple. Most people go goo-goo over iPhones and iPads, I prefer to see what Apple reveals in its desktop/laptop line. However, a 2GB GPU for that display is worrying me a little bit. I’m not sure how well that GPU can handle the work load it will need to endure. I priced a 5K iMac with a 4GB GPU and 16GB of RAM and came out to just over $3,000. If you edit a ton of photos and video, and don’t want to work on a trash can (See Mac Pro,) this is the bomb.

Apple Pay is something that interests me, but with all those security risks around, I’ll wait for it to be used a few days or weeks before I decide to start using. I also don’t know if it will be widely available in my area.

yosemite

OS X Yosemite was something that I’ve been excited about since it was announced. Being able to answer phone calls and send SMS messages is a cool feature. Also, being able to start work on my Mac and moving it over to my iPad or iPhone will be a very handy feature, especially for being a college student. It also makes the interface more iOS7-like and notification center supports widgets. At the time of this posting, I am downloading Yosemite. I’ll have a review after I play around with it for a little bit.

It was a beautiful day in nerd paradise. iPhone 6 and OS X Yosemite reviews are in the works. Stay tuned here to cheapfivedollardress.com and follow me on Twitter @ryanfinfrock.

I’m also following the #gamergate situation pretty closely. This internet grassroots movement has received a lot of press recently. I’m working on something for that too.

Signing off.

Bent Smartphones are nothing new, but since it’s an iPhone, everyone pays attention

So, I can hear the arguments now: “Android phones don’t have this problem.” “This is just another reason to not go with Apple!” “Android phones don’t bend!” Just read this post and reserve judgement to the end. 

 

STOP THE PRESSES! We just figured out that when you put an iPhone 6 in your pocket, it can bend! We need to let everyone know!!

If this news were anything.. well… new, it may be a bigger deal than it actually is.

The fact of the matter is that bent smartphones, not just iPhones, have a history of bending.

Take a look (Special thanks to Buster Hein for the images):

Here is the Blackberry Q10:

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The HTC EVO:

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Even the much older iPhone 4:

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The Sony Xperia:

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And Apple’s biggest rival: Samsung Galaxy S4:

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So why all of the sudden do bent smartphones make the news? Well, I believe the news comes from the Apple brand. It goes without questioning that the Apple brand comes with a certain intrigue and expectation. There’s a reason why millions of people tune in from around the world to watch Apple unveil their latest creation. They have come love the products that Apple comes out with. They love the quality and operation of the tech. When something wrong happens.. people take notice.

So this news is a testament to the Apple brand. Smartphone have a history of bending, but it took the latest iPhone (granted much thinner than previous iterations) for people to actually make the issue mainstream. The Apple brand is truly the most powerful name in technology.

How widespread this issue is… who really knows. Look for bending tests to become a main component when it comes to reviewing new smartphones.

Also, don’t be stupid and put the phone in the back pocket of your jeans.. you’ll sit on your phone… and it will bend and break… duh.

I didn’t want to make this a post about the iOS vs Android battle, nothing really comes from those arguments. I simply wanted to let it be known that bent smartphones have been happening for some time now.

As phones continue to get thinner and thinner, this problem will continue. You know what might help? Stop making smartphones so damn big. This “phablet” fad needs to end. You want a big, mobile screen? Get a tablet.

 

Signing off.

ISIS, Ray Rice, iPhones,Education and nudes – A match made in heaven

Ahh… time for some release therapy.

It has been quite some time since I’ve been able to sit down and properly vent about the things that have been happening in our world today. A lot has happened, so let’s get to it.

ISIL, ISIS, Islamic State or whatever they call themselves these days continues to threaten the United States by making beheading videos public to the world. Two of these individuals are journalists. This fact hits a little close to home for someone like me who works with some phenomenal journalists and may be one someday. The fact that certain individuals are willing to sacrifice themselves for the good of the story and making sure that we are up to date on what is happening in other parts of the world is admirable. Now, for clarification, I am not comparing journalists to the armed forces fighting in the same areas, those people are a different breed.

Now, what would I do in this situation? I would send troops over and let the Islamic State know that when you mess with Americans, we will come at you and make you regret ever challenging America. Now, I know it is not as simple as that, but as someone who feels personally offended by the beheadings, my bias really shows (of course, what would Cheap Five Dollar Dress be without my bias?) The Islamic State is the biggest terrorist organization in the world, it’s time to show them their place in the world, which is no place in the world.

Switching gears, the NFL tried to show that it cares about women for more than just the month of October (Breast cancer awareness month.) with the indefinite suspension of Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice. The NFL is making a mockery of itself throughout this entire ordeal. I’m sure you all know about the situation now, so I won’t bother with the details. I only have one question, a question that has been brought up many time before: Why didn’t the NFL ever get this full video?

 

Not smiling so much anymore...
Not smiling so much anymore…

We also know, in the NFL, that it is safer to beat your fiancee than to smoke pot (i.e. Josh Gordon.) I’m sure feminists are having a field day with that… which leads to another question I have: What the hell does feminism mean anymore? Seriously, I continue to hear different definitions of what people believe ‘feminism’ is to the point where I’m wondering if it’s a real thing. Someone, please enlighten me.

Also, his then fiancee is now his wife. She stand by him through this whole ordeal. Those are the facts… do with them as you please.

The iPhone 6 was announced today, so today is an official ‘nerd holiday’ for myself. Two iPhones, a 4.7 inch and 5.5 inch. Do you have an iPad? If you answered “yes” then don’t bother with the 5.5 inch iPhone. The phone looks a lot like leaked images that have been coming out the past few weeks. Faster processor, better image taking, better video. It’s what you expect from an iPhone in a fast, slimmer casing.. which is perfect. It is a good looking phone that will do what I need it to do faster, easier, and better. So I’ll be getting one (a 4.7 inch) next month when my contract is up.

 

Credit: CNN
Credit: CNN

Also, as I near the end of my college career (graduation in May 2015!) I have been faced with the question of “Is college worth the investment?” I haven’t really thought about this until people started asking me. I did some research on it (watching people’s opinions on the matter on YouTube.) and I found the results to be mainly negative. This proved to be a real head scratcher for me. I find college to be well-worth the investment in both time and money. I’ve learned what I want to know and more in the field that I am trying to get into, made some good network connections and made some good friends. That’s what college is all about right? Well, to some people, if you don’t have a job right out of college, you should get your money back (WTF?)

Language warning!

This kind of goes back to the entitlement issue that I have talked about NUMEROUS times before on CFDD and my late radio show. What this guy likes to talk about centers around not having a useful degree and therefore wanting a full college refund. However, what I’ve learned in college is that there is a constant need for adoption and adaptation of new ways of living. It’s no secret that our world is changing at a very fast rate, so fast that people are having a hard time keeping up with it. (More on this in a little bit.) It is up to the individual to learn new technologies based off the knowledge they know about the old ways of doing things. If you can’t adopt, then you really didn’t learn anything in college. Also, networking is well worth the investment alone. One of the first days of college, a professor told the class that it is not what you know, but who you know. Tell me this isn’t true? I took that to heart and made some great contacts in my field. It’s lead to a couple jobs and a couple freelance gigs, all while I am still a student. If you feel as though your college education isn’t worth it, you simply are not trying hard enough.

I alluded to people’s knowledge of technology earlier. This leads me to my final thought of this post: Celebgate, or “The Fappening” as social media has come to know it as. This, of course, is the leaked nudes of celebrities such as Kate Upton and Jennifer Lawrence. iCloud, Apple’s cloud storage application,  was the center of this controversy. What my main point about this is that people do not know how new tech (cloud storage, in particular) actually works. Cloud storage is data wirelessly transferred to a bank of hard drives somewhere else, you have no idea where this is actually stored. So somewhere between those two points, it may be easy for someone to intercept it, which is what happened in this case. Technology is moving so fast that people don’t have time to take a break and learn what is new. It’s a challenge, especially those who are immigrating to the digital world. It’s definitely a problem that needs to be fixed, otherwise we have more instances such as “The Fappening.” What baffles me is that people are talking about cloud storage as if it is an actual cloud hovering over you. I really have no clever line to put here, I think that statement is its own punchline.

Privacy in the digital age requires much education. It first starts with being personally responsible for what you are taking pictures of and knowing where those might end up. That is only one step, but a big step to making progress in privacy in the digital age.

That’ll wrap things up for this post, which may be my longest ever. I’ll try and update things here as I have time to do so. In the mean time, leave a comment here or tweet me @ryanfinfrock.

Signing off.